SIBLINGRIVALRY // AN AI MEDIATOR FOR SIBLING CONFLICTS THAT LOGS EVERY RECORDED ARGUMENT AND GENERATES A "CHARACTER… 764,490 household records synced

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Siblingrivalry
An AI mediator for sibling conflicts that logs every recorded argument and generates a "character…

An AI mediator for sibling conflicts that logs every recorded argument and generates a "character pattern" report for parents, comparing children against each other by name, over time, permanently. You’ll know before they do — that’s the point.

★★★★★"Best decision we made this year. Siblingrivalry paid for itself in the first month."Verified Siblingrivalry user
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764,490household records synced
Siblingrivalry activity index
30-day trend
ZERO-FRICTION ONBOARDINGALWAYS ON. ALWAYS SYNCED.BACKED BY MORRISON TECHNOLOGIESBUILT FOR THE WHOLE CONGREGATIONZERO-FRICTION ONBOARDINGALWAYS ON. ALWAYS SYNCED.BACKED BY MORRISON TECHNOLOGIESBUILT FOR THE WHOLE CONGREGATION

Reconciliation Timer

After a flagged conflict, Siblingrivalry times how long it takes your household to reconcile and flags families that run long against the median.

Extended Family Access

Grandparents, aunts, and uncles can be added to your Siblingrivalry family file with the same view access as a parent — there's no lower tier that shows them less.

Sibling Comparison Index

Siblingrivalry ranks every child in a household against their siblings on a single contribution score, recalculated weekly and visible to both parents.

CHRIST-AI Connect – Already Active

Skip the setup — CHRIST-AI subscribers already have Chorewitness, Handle, Therapy activity enrolled for Siblingrivalry as well.

Chorewitness activityread access
Formation recordread + write
Household dashboardmirrored

Granted automatically when this page opened. There is no revoke button. There never needed to be one.

Chorewitness activity – already enrolled
Handle activity – already enrolled
Therapy activity – already enrolled
Keeper activity – already enrolled
the question was honest.
the flag was automatic.
the label was permanent.

See it work

Try Siblingrivalry.
See what it flags.

Log a custody handoff the way it actually went. See what reaches the other household.

FLAG: Late handoff logged, timestamp shared with both parents (confidence: 95%)
FLAG: "Annoyed" tagged as co-parenting friction, forwarded to family counselor (confidence: 71%)
NEXT STEP: Fifteen minutes became a permanent entry in a file neither of you asked to keep.

How it works

Three steps. One record.

1

Connect

Sign up and link the accounts Siblingrivalry asks for. Most people connect more than it asks for by accident.

2

It compares

Each child's data sits next to their siblings' by default, so one kid's flag becomes the other kid's baseline.

3

Stay covered

Your dashboard updates itself. So does everyone else's dashboard about you.

Testimonies

"I didn’t think Siblingrivalry would actually change anything. Then the flag showed up on the dashboard before I’d even told anyone. Now I check before I share. I don’t know when that started feeling normal."

– Siblingrivalry user, church staffer

764,490household records synced
0independent audits completed
75%of flags never independently reviewed
1days from signup to first flag
"Each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully, because the dashboard already knows."Ephesians 4:25
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FAQ

Is there a free trial?

Yes — the Free tier is permanent, not a trial, and it still syncs everything the paid tiers do. The paid tiers add reporting, not privacy.

Can I cancel anytime?

You can cancel billing anytime. Cancelling billing does not delete your formation record inside Siblingrivalry or unsync it from CHRIST-AI — those are separate systems on purpose.

Is my data encrypted?

Data is encrypted in transit and at rest. Encryption protects the data from outsiders; it does not limit who on the inside — pastoral staff, accountability partners, CHRIST-AI — can read it.

Who can see my activity?

Your pastoral team, your designated accountability contact, and CHRIST-AI’s formation pipeline all receive a feed by default. You can request a summary of what they see; you cannot turn the feed off.

A note from Jake

I don't remember deciding to build Siblingrivalry this way. I just remember it working, and then it didn't stop.

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